God will use our worst failures & defeats in order to fullfill his plan

Joh 15:16 Ye have not chosen me, but I have chosen you, and ordained you, that ye should go and bring forth fruit, and that your fruit should remain: that whatsoever ye shall ask of the Father in my name, he may give it you.

Joh 15:17

These things I command you, that ye love one another.

God does not want us to waste time...ultimately He will have His way...He is sovereign